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如何幫助寶寶快速適應(yīng)托兒所，各位寶媽這些準備做足了嘛？

出處：網(wǎng)絡(luò)收集日期：2024-07-25 14:46:25編輯：秩名

入托準備現(xiàn)在就該開始

 
入托，無論對孩子還是家長來說，都是一種生長痛。因為孩子小，入托之痛可能更甚于入園之痛。那么，這種疼痛有沒有降低甚至消除的可能性？作為父母，我們又該如何協(xié)助孩子盡快適應(yīng)呢？
 

※入托和入園，區(qū)別何在※

 
入托和入園，都是孩子離開家庭，踏入社會的第一步。從這個角度來講，二者沒有本質(zhì)的區(qū)別。無論入托還是入園，孩子都需要經(jīng)歷一個克服分離焦慮、適應(yīng)新環(huán)境，并在適應(yīng)環(huán)境后學會面對各種突發(fā)情況及常規(guī)情況的過程。不同的是，入托的孩子年齡更小，心智發(fā)育程度更低，自理能力更弱，心理適應(yīng)能力更差，面臨的問題更多，讓我們揪心的事情也會更多些。
 
對于3歲前的孩子來說，他跟小伙伴游戲的欲望還沒有那么強烈，跟媽媽在一起是他最大的心理需求。因此，離開媽媽，對孩子永遠都是一種考驗。不過也有好消息，那就是孩子心理年齡偏小，注意力更容易被轉(zhuǎn)移。如果老師懂孩子，富有愛心與耐心，孩子更容易以老師替代媽媽，適應(yīng)起來更快一些。
 
而且，托兒所一般沒有教學的壓力，家長對孩子在托兒所學不學到東西不甚在意，只要孩子安全，心情愉悅，基本都會比較放心。如此，孩子面臨的壓力相對來說反而要小一些。
 

※你和寶寶都做好準備了嗎※

 
孩子入托，需要做好各種準備。其中最重要的是心理準備。這心理準備，看不見摸不著，卻是至關(guān)重要的。實際上，不僅孩子，家長也面臨同樣的問題。我們舍不得孩子，不敢信賴老師，會質(zhì)疑托兒所，因此，我們有太多的擔憂與疑慮。而孩子越小，越依賴家長來判斷外部環(huán)境的好壞。若家長眼里有個光明的世界，孩子的心里就亮堂；家長眼里有個陰暗的世界，孩子的心里就霧靄重重。
 
既然沒有別的選擇，在前期多方考察，選定托兒所之后，就要相信老師，相信孩子，相信一切都會步入正軌。作如是想，孩子才能從我們身上獲得一種力量，適應(yīng)起來會更快。相反，若我們無法給孩子心理上的支撐，反而會帶動孩子陷入恐懼的漩渦，不僅于事無補，還可能成事不足敗事有余。當然，要我們處變不驚，沒那么容易。不過，人生永遠都是一個權(quán)衡的過程。既然我們不可能親自帶孩子，而焦慮、擔憂又無濟于事，何不選擇對孩子更有益的方式呢？
 
除了家長自身，孩子也需要有心理準備。但是，鑒于孩子年齡小，不建議給他講得太多。講太多，孩子理解困難，而且，過多地強調(diào)，反而會增加孩子的恐慌感。因此，簡單告知他要去托兒所，他在那里會是什么一種狀態(tài)就可以了。
 
當然，無論我們準備工作做得多充分，分離焦慮都是必然面臨的。因此，我們自己要做好接受孩子入托之后面臨的各種變化與臨時出現(xiàn)的狀況，平靜自然地接納孩子各種情緒的思想準備，做到心中有數(shù)。我們越是心中有數(shù)，內(nèi)心淡定，越是能給予孩子強有力的支持。
 

※準備越充分，寶寶越適應(yīng)※

 
要讓孩子盡快適應(yīng)托兒所的生活，除了上述的心理準備工作之外，我們還可以考慮做一些更實際的工作去幫助孩子：
 
1、了解托兒所的情況與要求，盡量提前幫助孩子掌握必須掌握的各種技能，逐步調(diào)整孩子作息、飲食等習慣，盡量與托兒所的狀況貼近，并跟老師溝通孩子的情況，征求老師的建議。
 
2、詢問老師與自家孩子氣質(zhì)類型相通的孩子入托之后通常會面臨哪些問題，做到心中有數(shù)，并考慮應(yīng)對的策略，以免遇到問題時束手無策。
 
3、帶孩子去參觀托兒所，讓他對托兒所有個直觀的認識。
 
4、如果可能，可將孩子的教室及活動場所、老師的照片等拍了帶回家給孩子看，通過這些具體的圖像告知孩子他要去一個什么樣的環(huán)境，帶領(lǐng)他的會是什么樣的人，一日生活會以什么樣的方式進行。如此，孩子心里有底，到了托兒所，內(nèi)心的恐慌感與焦慮感就會相對輕一些。
 
5、跟孩子商量，選擇一個安慰物（一般選擇比較柔軟的毛絨玩具、枕頭、毛巾、小毛毯等物品，這些毛茸茸手感柔軟的物品更能帶給孩子安全感。當然也要視孩子情況而定，比如有的小男孩迷戀汽車，也可以考慮選擇汽車作為安慰物），并賦予這個安慰物以靈性，利用它設(shè)計一些與孩子互動的游戲，建立起心靈上連接。這個安慰物可以在孩子入托之后部分地代替媽媽陪伴他。在孩子入托之后，可以具體情況具體分析，利用這個安慰物做許多的工作，給孩子提供心理支持。
 
6、不要過分美化托兒所，也不要無意當中表露對托兒所不信任等情緒。盡可能向孩子傳遞更多正面的信息。尤其在跟鄰居朋友等聊天時，若孩子在身邊，一定注意不要談?wù)摳鞣N負面的消息。
 
7、多帶孩子外出，多接觸外人，讓孩子習慣與家人以外的人相處，但不要逼迫孩子。提供相應(yīng)的環(huán)境，讓孩子有機會接觸就好。如果孩子很抵制，可先從家人入手——由主要撫養(yǎng)人帶領(lǐng)孩子與其他家庭成員有更多的接觸，讓他逐漸適應(yīng)與主要撫養(yǎng)人分離。
 
8、幫助孩子學會表達自己的需求。如果孩子的語言能力發(fā)展不太好，可以暫時用一些特定的手勢或者其他肢體語言替代，并在入托前詳細向老師說明。與此同時，要輔以語言表達，讓孩子浸泡在這樣的語言環(huán)境中，逐漸學會通過語言表達。
 
9、入托前準備一份簡明扼要的清單，概括孩子的性格特點，需要交代的特別需求（如睡前必須喝奶等），可能有的特別反應(yīng)（如怕黑或者其他事物等），最佳安撫方式，健康方面需要特別注意的地方……這個清單可以幫助老師了解孩子，同時采取更有針對性的方式去協(xié)助孩子。
 
總之，準備越充分，孩子適應(yīng)起來就越容易，但要避免過度準備，如成天在孩子面前談入托之事，以免起反作用。準備要從心入手，心若淡定，一切隨心所轉(zhuǎn)。

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