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如何正確對(duì)待寶寶的高聲尖叫

出處：網(wǎng)絡(luò)收集日期：2024-07-28 02:18:36編輯：胖虎愛撩妹
  婷婷是一位2歲的小女孩，平時(shí)就喜歡高聲尖叫。一天，媽媽在廚房擇菜，婷婷進(jìn)來抓起一把豆角就要去客廳，媽媽伸手阻止，誰知，婷婷憤怒地瞪著媽媽，高聲尖叫了起來。媽媽一下子不知道怎么辦了。婷婷則趁著這個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)掙脫媽媽，一邊尖叫著一邊跑到了客廳，把豆角弄得到處都是。
 
  媽媽納悶，好好的小女孩，不文文靜靜的，怎么一天到晚尖叫？玩高興了尖叫，遇到不如意事情了尖叫。難道尖叫對(duì)寶寶來講很舒服嗎？
 
  傾聽寶寶的尖叫聲
 
  寶寶尖叫，是有理由的。寶寶是用尖叫來表達(dá)自己的感受、情緒、想法的。不管寶寶是為了發(fā)泄情緒，還是為了吸引大人的注意力，或者是為了反抗而尖叫，媽媽都要明白，這是寶寶的語言，傾聽是最好的方式。
 
  所謂的傾聽，并不是需要家長忍耐寶寶，“這不僅需要鋼鐵一樣的意志，更需要有聾了一樣的耳朵”，而是要認(rèn)識(shí)到寶寶是個(gè)獨(dú)立的個(gè)體，要以理解和尊重的態(tài)度去傾聽，去了解寶寶為什么尖叫。
 
  1．高興的時(shí)候
 
  當(dāng)寶寶一邊笑一邊跳著尖叫起來的時(shí)候，可能是有高興的事情。這個(gè)時(shí)候，媽媽就要觀察一下寶寶做了什么事情。媽媽一定要明白，寶寶的興奮點(diǎn)和大人不一樣。比如，把什么東西搞壞了，看到搞笑的事情，實(shí)現(xiàn)了某個(gè)愿望等，這個(gè)時(shí)候的寶寶還不能正確區(qū)分哪些事情可以做哪些事情不可以做，更不知道如何充分表達(dá)他興奮的情緒，因而極易采取尖叫這種非常簡單的方式表達(dá)自己的歡樂。
 
  如果媽媽觀察到寶寶高興的源頭并沒有傷害性，就配合著寶寶一起笑笑吧1
 
  2．寂寞的時(shí)候
 
  當(dāng)寶寶獨(dú)自一個(gè)人尖叫的時(shí)候，可能是因?yàn)榘职謰寢尪荚诿ψ约旱氖虑?，他覺得自己玩沒意思，才發(fā)出了抗議，以引起爸爸媽媽的關(guān)注。越是到夜晚的時(shí)候，寶寶越需要有人陪伴，因?yàn)檫@樣會(huì)令他們感到安全。
 
  所以，忙碌了一天的媽媽們，到了晚上就要慷慨一點(diǎn)，把時(shí)間多給寶寶一些，陪寶寶一起玩玩吧！
 
  3．憤怒的時(shí)候
 
  寶寶被欺負(fù)的時(shí)候、遇到不開心的事情的時(shí)候，就會(huì)大聲尖叫，以表達(dá)自己的憤怒。這個(gè)時(shí)候，媽媽要看情況來安撫寶寶。如果是被人欺負(fù)，媽媽可以先置之不理一會(huì)兒，如果發(fā)現(xiàn)寶寶們動(dòng)手了，就當(dāng)一下裁判好了，分清誰對(duì)誰錯(cuò)后，就要告訴寶寶如何和睦相處。
 
  如果媽媽給寶寶洗澡、換衣服、剪頭發(fā)等，寶寶因?yàn)椴辉敢舛舐暭饨校瑡寢尵鸵嬖V寶寶：“媽媽很輕很輕地洗，一會(huì)兒就能洗完！寶寶勇敢點(diǎn)！堅(jiān)持一下?。?rdquo;如果寶寶反抗得厲害，媽媽不妨停下來稍微休息一會(huì)兒，了解一下寶寶的感受，然后再進(jìn)行，但是決不能妥協(xié)。否則，寶寶養(yǎng)成了習(xí)慣，就會(huì)用尖叫的方式反抗媽媽的行為。
 
  4．在模仿
 
  如果家庭成員中有說話聲音比較高的．寶寶接觸到了，覺得那樣很神氣、很威武，就會(huì)嘗試著去模仿。所以，媽媽要自制一些，控制住自己的情緒，不要對(duì)著寶寶大喊大叫。當(dāng)寶寶尖叫的時(shí)候，媽媽也不要對(duì)著寶寶喊叫，因?yàn)檫@樣反而會(huì)激發(fā)寶寶尖叫的興趣，更難以制止了。
 
  面對(duì)家里喜歡尖叫的寶寶，媽媽只有明白寶寶為什么尖叫，才能釜底抽薪地讓他停止吵鬧。
 
  試著理解寶寶
 
  每位媽媽都試圖去尊重寶寶，尊重寶寶第一重要的事情就是了解寶寶，精心架起通向?qū)殞殐?nèi)心的橋梁。這樣，媽媽才不會(huì)誤解寶寶的行為，作出錯(cuò)誤的判斷。
 
  1．教寶寶說出來
 
  寶寶1歲后，自我意識(shí)逐漸增強(qiáng)，什么都想自己做，可是媽媽又覺得寶寶自己做不好，往往就替寶寶去做，媽媽不了解寶寶的意圖盲目地幫助寶寶，寶寶就會(huì)不服氣。但是語言能力較差，無法順暢地用語言來表達(dá)自己的需求，情急之中，就大聲尖叫了。
 
  這個(gè)時(shí)候，媽媽不要大聲地制止寶寶，而是平靜地對(duì)寶寶說：“你想做什么，說出來？”如果寶寶不會(huì)說，只是用手比畫。媽媽可以猜測一下寶寶的想法：“你想把抱抱熊放進(jìn)洗衣機(jī)里是嗎？”“你想把自己的衣服給抱抱熊穿上是嗎？”“你想把抱抱熊綁起來，當(dāng)做壞蛋懲罰是嗎？”如果媽媽猜對(duì)了寶寶的想法，寶寶就會(huì)點(diǎn)頭。
 
  媽媽用這樣的方式引導(dǎo)寶寶，不但教會(huì)了寶寶遇到難題怎么向媽媽求助，同時(shí)也教會(huì)了寶寶怎么與人溝通，提高了寶寶的語言表達(dá)能力。
 
  2．等寶寶發(fā)泄后，疏導(dǎo)
 
  既然寶寶把尖叫當(dāng)成表達(dá)情緒的一種方式，那么阻斷寶寶肯定不會(huì)收到良好的效果。因?yàn)榍榫w就像決堤的水，堵是堵不住的，更何況你面對(duì)的是一個(gè)自控能力比較差的孩子。與其盲目地去堵，導(dǎo)致情緒泛濫，不如讓寶寶盡情地發(fā)泄。發(fā)泄完了，寶寶就安靜了。
 
  即使寶寶想通過帶有情緒的尖叫來威脅媽媽滿足他某項(xiàng)不合理的要求，當(dāng)他發(fā)現(xiàn)這種方法不管用的時(shí)候，他們就會(huì)放棄使用這種方法。寶寶可是很聰明的！
 
  不過，等寶寶平靜下來后，媽媽最好跟寶寶溝通一下，讓寶寶明白這樣的做法不好，是一種不被贊賞的行為。媽媽做事是有分寸的，合理的、正確的需要只要寶寶說出來，媽媽就會(huì)滿足，而不正確的要求，即使尖叫一天，媽媽也不會(huì)答應(yīng)的。

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