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三口之家分房睡，3個(gè)好處惹人羨，孩子情緒照顧到

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陳先生的兒子樂(lè)樂(lè)，有一天突然哭著跑回來(lái)?yè)涞乖陉愊壬膽牙?。?duì)陳先生說(shuō)：爸爸

陳先生非常疑惑，不知道兒子為什么會(huì)這樣說(shuō)？就問(wèn)道：

結(jié)果兒子告訴他是二單元的張奶奶說(shuō)：你爸爸媽媽晚上不在一起睡，他們是不是要離婚，不要你了。

陳先生非常生氣，不知道為什么張奶奶會(huì)口無(wú)遮攔給孩子說(shuō)這些東西，也覺(jué)得孩子太較真兒了，很容易被人欺騙。

在同時(shí)，陳先生也很苦惱不知道該

其實(shí)只是因?yàn)閮鹤映錾院?，陳太太?jīng)常半夜起來(lái)給孩子喂奶，為了不影響自己的休息，陳太太和妻子就自然而然地分房睡。

等到孩子再大一些，自己有

其實(shí)在我們的生活中，有很多夫妻都會(huì)選擇分房睡。這樣做有一部分是因?yàn)楦星椴缓?，或者感情破裂?/p>

但是絕大多數(shù)人覺(jué)得分房睡反而對(duì)自己有三大好處

就比如說(shuō)陳女士夫婦因?yàn)橐粋€(gè)打呼嚕，一個(gè)睡眠淺，如果強(qiáng)行睡在一起，就很難有任何一個(gè)人睡好覺(jué)。

而很多人睡覺(jué)的時(shí)候喜歡拍一些奇怪的姿勢(shì)，或者是

在國(guó)外有一家夫妻，妻子對(duì)丈夫過(guò)敏，但是兩個(gè)人感情非常好，最后他們選擇了結(jié)婚分居。丈夫住在一樓，妻子睡在二樓，兩個(gè)人總不見(jiàn)面，但是感情非常好。

兩個(gè)人在一起時(shí)間長(zhǎng)了，他們會(huì)覺(jué)得有所壓抑。就算是感情再好的夫妻，也會(huì)需要有喘口氣的時(shí)間，

然而分房睡以后，大家可以按照自己喜歡的方式去生活，去布置自己的房間。

有的人喜歡早睡，有的人喜歡晚睡，有的人喜歡看書(shū)，有的人喜歡玩兒游戲，大家都可以發(fā)掘出自己的愛(ài)好，保留自己的小秘密。有時(shí)候夫妻雙方交流時(shí)，會(huì)

作為一對(duì)已經(jīng)結(jié)婚七年的夫妻來(lái)說(shuō)，小吳和自己的丈夫小王已經(jīng)沒(méi)有了當(dāng)初談戀愛(ài)時(shí)的熱情和濃情似水。

生活的柴米油鹽醬醋茶消磨了他們對(duì)彼此的新鮮感和熱情，用小王的一句話來(lái)說(shuō)，就是

當(dāng)婚姻進(jìn)行到這種階段時(shí)，接下來(lái)就會(huì)很容易爆發(fā)摩擦和矛盾，甚至爭(zhēng)吵。

而為了改變彼此的這種不良心態(tài)，夫妻兩個(gè)人接受了

剛開(kāi)始的時(shí)候覺(jué)得沒(méi)有什么，但是等到第四天。

小王發(fā)現(xiàn)在自己不在主臥睡覺(jué)的時(shí)候，妻子在偷偷的打扮自己，一個(gè)人坐在那里涂著口紅，打著眼影，像個(gè)小傻瓜一樣臭美、憨笑，不再是那個(gè)被生活現(xiàn)實(shí)折磨的蓬頭垢面的家庭婦女了。

而小吳也發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的丈夫不再是那個(gè)洗完澡一回房間就躺在床上玩兒手機(jī)對(duì)自己不理不睬的已婚男人，每天回到房間丈夫興奮得玩兒兩把游戲，心情愉快，有一次竟然夸自己涂的口紅色號(hào)好看。

夫妻雙方天天在一起生活時(shí)間一長(zhǎng)，很容易產(chǎn)生審美疲勞。分房睡實(shí)際是讓夫妻雙方保持一個(gè)可以互相欣賞的距離，但是又不會(huì)離得太遠(yuǎn)感情疏散。

為什么心理醫(yī)生會(huì)

因?yàn)橐坏?，夫妻分房睡嘗到甜頭然后決定長(zhǎng)期保持下去，很容易就會(huì)走向另外一個(gè)極端，那就是夫妻感情會(huì)變淡。

因?yàn)榇蠹疑倭酥昂芏嗟臏贤ê徒涣鳎芏嗍虑槎疾粫?huì)顯現(xiàn)出全透明狀態(tài)，在很久都不交流之下，

這種一般都是針對(duì)分房睡時(shí)間過(guò)長(zhǎng)的夫妻，短暫的分開(kāi)可以促進(jìn)感情的發(fā)展，但是長(zhǎng)期的分居，只會(huì)讓夫妻疏離感情變淡。

甚至到了最后

在如今的現(xiàn)實(shí)社會(huì)中越來(lái)越多的年輕夫妻喜歡上了分房睡，打著給彼此更多空間的旗號(hào)來(lái)享受這種自由。

可是，很多夫妻在決定分房睡開(kāi)始，并沒(méi)有處理好自己的家庭關(guān)系，并沒(méi)有解釋清楚自己為什么要分房睡。

有孩子的家庭，

所以，如果夫妻感情越來(lái)越平淡，聽(tīng)了心理醫(yī)生的建議決定分房睡。

那么，在分房睡之前一定要做以下幾點(diǎn)準(zhǔn)備

媽媽告訴孩子：是因?yàn)榘职謵?ài)打呼嚕，媽媽的晚上睡不好覺(jué)，所以需要分房睡，因?yàn)閶寢屜胍粋€(gè)良好的睡眠。

或者是爸爸告訴孩子：爸爸晚上睡覺(jué)姿勢(shì)不太好，容易吵醒媽媽和你，所以爸爸決定暫時(shí)先搬出去在客房住，但是爸爸媽媽的感情特別好，這樣只是為了讓爸爸和媽媽還有你能夠得到更好的休息。

一般來(lái)說(shuō)，分房睡夫妻都是妻子睡主臥丈夫睡次臥，所以在全家溝通好以后，就要開(kāi)始著手布置睡房。

因?yàn)橐婚_(kāi)始就是為了能夠好好睡覺(jué)心情愉快，才會(huì)選擇分房睡，所以房間的布置因?yàn)橹匾?/p>

一般來(lái)說(shuō)，分房睡時(shí)間不建議超過(guò)兩周以上，因?yàn)橐坏┏^(guò)，時(shí)間越來(lái)越長(zhǎng)，大家就會(huì)慢慢適應(yīng)這種生活態(tài)度方式。

所以夫妻可以選擇分房睡的時(shí)間。比如說(shuō)

在夫妻分房睡以后，孩子有可能會(huì)有很長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間的適應(yīng)期，也會(huì)有很強(qiáng)烈的不安全感，這個(gè)時(shí)候?yàn)榱四茏尯⒆痈残摹?/p>

父母應(yīng)該給孩子更多的陪伴，給家人更多的陪伴，讓孩子從這種不安全沒(méi)有依靠的感覺(jué)中走出來(lái)接受父母偶爾的自由時(shí)間和個(gè)人隱私。

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